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Originally Posted by doubtful
I think that my mother defined how I should feel all of the time--as an extension of her. So, I'm pretty defended any time I feel like someone is telling me how I should or would feel about something. I don't believe that's what T is doing, but some childhood defenses are activated nonetheless.
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I also get upset when my t says things like that. The above quote is probably why. Who wants to be told (or think they are being told) how they feel? I think this is what makes sense to me, for my negative reactions.
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