Therapy iz needed to heal, and id highly advise you leave your boyfriend, demanding when you object is him doing just what the rest did. You dont have to explain no to him, no means no.

I wish so muchwhen i was 15, that i would have left my boyfriend sooner than i did. I left him due to a restraining order my mom put on him, we had been dating 9 minths and i called him on valentines day and broke free.

He was similar to your boyfriend, and when i would tell him about my past abuse, he would use it to get sexual things from me, guilt me into doing it. Its been 10 years and it still effects me. My advice, get out before it causes any more damage