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Old Jul 23, 2012, 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted by AbandonmentIssues View Post
I know. I am not expecting him to come back.

I'm nothing special, but I do know that I have loved someone with all of my heart and soul and to me, that's enough. I remember all of the good times. I honestly believe he is the love of my life and I am willing to let him go if he isn't happy...no matter what his reasons.

There isn't much one can say to you if you feel this way, despite his abanding you at such a critical time. You may start to feel differently when you are faced with caring for your child alone, while he is out there living/partying as a single male, and that is what he seems to want.
I hope you will find help, emotionally and financially, as you work your way through this.