Skysblue,
Thank you for sharing your journey through that awful stage that we all go through- The Neediness, attachment stage, thankfully you came out the other side. You described it beautifully, if only my T woould explain it like you have and not be so afraid of it I think I and a lot more of us here wouldn't be so afraid of it and would in fact embrace these feelings. You are very insightful Skysblue and wise, did you ever consider becoming a T?