I am not aware if my therapist does this. Maybe she does and I'm just insensitive to it.

My pet peeve question is "How does that make you feel?" I always feel like such an idiot because the answer is usually "bad" or "I don't know." And it also sounds manufactured. I guess I wish she would say something that give me a clue to how I should feel (I know, I know...no "shoulds). Kind of like the opposite of what you're talking about.