Pbutton, you have been in my thoughts today because I knew your session was this afternoon. I don't have any words of advice, but know that you will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Ending a relationship with a T you are attached to on some level (and with all the great work you did with him) is never easy. It is a loss that must be grieved and that's hard. Really hard.

The main thing I wanted to give you are these:

Maximum allowable.