I think you know by now that I identify with your situation but I can't help. I thought I would cry last week when we decided I should stop emailing my T, and when I talked about being more attached to her, not less, but the tears wouldn't come. They came later, as usual. T tells me it's okay to cry with her but I can't. Maybe some day we will both cry and then we'll have a party to celebrate. As for now, I don't know if there's anything we can do about it. If anyone has any new ideas, I'd like to know too.