You're welcome. I never had sexual fantasys about my therapists. But If I had sexual fantasys about SKR I would have had no problem telling. We got into a few conversations about sex and fantisizing because I am a sexual abuse survivor and being sexually active has not always been easy for me.

Years ago when I was in this one particular support group and having trouble sleeping because I never knew when one of my abusers was going to show up. So one night we got a bit carried away in this group having fun brainstorming the tradition ways of dealing with abusers vs todays socieetys ways of handling an abuser and alone the way some spoke up and told me that if I had any more trouble getting slepp that night to fantasize that so and so was in my closet with a baseball bat, so and so was at my window with her glass soda bottles she takes into the woods to smash when she want to release pent up stuff and so and so in bed with me holding me safe and sound while we listened to my music and the rest of the group scattered gauntlet style through my house. To get to me the abusers had to go through all of them. My therapist at that time was attending the group as a guest speaker and joined right in telling that she was going to be right there in the bed on the other side of me protecting me too. So ever since no matter what therapist I am seeing that therapist is in my fantasy every night on guard protecting me while I slept in her arms. I add realism to it by positioning my pillows into a V and pretending that V is my therapist arm around me. When I told SKR about this she thought it was a great idea.