She admitted that T's CAN be friends with FORMER clients, but once this happens, they can NEVER be your T again. It happens more than they will ever admit to lol. They use the "ethics" as an excuse to protect themselves. see, I knew it. They don't want to deal with us outside of therapy, and I don't blame them one bit. *sigh* yeah, me either. She said that when I'm finished with therapy that we might "have coffee or something like that, but we can't be friends." .