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Originally Posted by My kids are cool
That is a beautiful, well written email. Have you considered sending it to him as an actual letter? I sent my first therapist a letter several years after I stopped seeing him, thanking him for his help. He told me several years after that that he had kept that letter from me.
Also, for what it's worth, some therapists are okay with periodic contact. Mine was.
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Considering that I really WAS too attached to him, I don't think maintaining contact is in my best interest. It just really hurts.
I think sending a physical letter is a great idea. I feel like he'd probably hang onto it for at least a while. Knowing that he (probably) has a physical...totem? (lol) of me or to remind him of me would really make me feel better. Where should I send it, though? He told me his new work place. Would it be appropriate to send it there? I don't know how big the place is... would he get it?
That's the part I'd be worried about. I suppose I could drive up there and drop it off with a receptionist or something. But if he saw me up there, that would be really weird, too... I don't want him to think I'm stalking him!
ahhh lol