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Old Jul 08, 2006, 01:16 PM
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Hello hello.

I made another post about my roomate awhile ago. LINK HERE

Long story short, I did speak with Housing (and Attendant Services, who arrange the accessible rooms for those who need it - myself included).

I was given the choice of moving out and into another place, but... I turned it down. I saw the room, it wasn';t big enough for me, and I would have needed a meal plan (which doesn't work for me, I was having allergic reactions because of cross-contamination).

So I chose the roomate.

I spoke with her friends, and they spoke to my roomate (Yes, I did as well. I had told her I was considering moving out because of personality conflicts... she accepted that).

She's said she'll attempt to change, but I was wondering if there was anything in particular (advice-wise) about how to negotiate her not trying to run my life so we can maintain a positive relationship?

I'm trying to set boundaries, but its soooo hard.

Any advice much appreciated.
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