Considering that I really WAS too attached to him, I don't think maintaining contact is in my best interest. It just really hurts.

I think sending a physical letter is a great idea. I feel like he'd probably hang onto it for at least a while. Knowing that he (probably) has a physical...totem? (lol) of me or to remind him of me would really make me feel better. Where should I send it, though? He told me his new work place. Would it be appropriate to send it there? I don't know how big the place is... would he get it?

That's the part I'd be worried about. I suppose I could drive up there and drop it off with a receptionist or something. But if he saw me up there, that would be really weird, too... I don't want him to think I'm stalking him!

ahhh lol