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Old Jul 25, 2012, 08:46 AM
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No, you are not crazy! Discuss it with your T, it will help. My T not only changed offices after 7-8 years, but then, a few weeks later, we moved offices for good, across a couple states! That in-between office in the old building was horrible (a mostly unused conference room) and, at first, the offices (we kept changing them) in the new place were not much better. But then we got a room I liked better and it became our new office and I settled in; over time, it gets better, especially if you discuss it with T.

I remember when I called her new office building "sleazy" and we discussed that. It reminded me of the old WWII apartment buildings where my family was living when I was born, two-story brick, just kind of "tawdry" It was wonderful trying to describe a building so my T could see what I see and so I could understand my reaction!

Form a "unit" and bond with T so that you are in it together instead of you being in the room and T switching offices.
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