yes i do this all the time. i didn't realise i was doing it but T pointed out that i always wait for quarter to 11 to say something embarrassing or difficult. i need to work on that.

as for what you said, i don't know. i mean i think it's good that you said it at all even if it was at the last minute and maybe it would have helped to talk it out more but i don't think it's the worst kind of doorknob confession.