((((Desirae))))

This situation would have to be very hard. It's hard to keep struggling through without having the resources and energy, and it's hard to think about letting go too. Your sister could be torn between wanting to act her age and have another chance and be free from responsibility that she isn't ready, and her perceived expectations about being a mother to her son. If she weren't ambivalent she would either give him up or stay and take care of him. If the possibility of adoption were offerred to her, she might even find it freeing. Entering into a marriage in order to keep the baby when she isn't ready to settle down and nobody expects the marriage to last is only going to mess up three people's lives, I'm afraid.

I really do wish you well.

Rapunzel