I too hate the 'wear do you feel something in your body?'. I find I feel 'on the spot' and need to come up with an answer BUT there are times where I do have a 'feeling' of the physical sorts (tightning of the throat; a heaviness in my chest etc..). Often times when I can feel the physical part I can usually associate it with a memory or a feeling.
Sometimes I feel nothing. - I think some of lack of feeling has to do with trusting T combined with feeling self conscious of my body, feeling shut down emotionally; judging myself for not doing it right or feeling like I frustrate T or I don't deserve to have these emotions.
Thank you for bringing this topic up!! I often think I am the only one who isn't a fan of the questions!