Sannah there has to be more. Why did they think it was okay to do it to me? Because it did happen to all of them when they were kids?

I have never even considered or thought about doing that to a child and I have 3 kids.
Dysfunctional while it is a good descriptive word is not enough.
Grandfather has been dead for 5 years, can't confront him
Both parents, may have symptoms of mental illnesses but have had no treatment.
I have a mental illness and I don't think that having one means that your less in society and because I have a level of control on myself I can't see how having a mental illness would predispose you to being an animal to a child.
Hey Sannah I also noticed that you've done the MBTI so have I. I'm a ISTJ at work and an ISFJ at home, maybe its the DID that gives me two. Who knows...