Consistency isn't exactly a BPer's strong suit, ya know? LOL

I was awful about that with my kids, and I'm probably going to be apologizing to them for the rest of my days for it. They just never knew which mother was going to come home from work each day---the tired but easygoing one who'd listen to their complaints and offer constructive advice, or the B**** from Hell. They're all grown now and we're all still on speaking terms, so I must've done something a little bit right, but I wouldn't put them through their childhoods again for anything in the world.