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Old Jul 25, 2012, 08:02 PM
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Thank you for all the comments. I like seeing that I am not the only one who has difficulty with naming specific body parts as holding feelings. It makes me feel not so weird!

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Originally Posted by bamapsych
She then asked where I feel it in my body. I told her how my belly hurts and I stay in the restroom on the toilet most of the time when I get really nervous. I know that's NOT what she wanted to hear lmbo
What do you think she wanted to hear? What you said sounds OK to me!

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Originally Posted by rainbow8
I would suggest telling your T about your analogy next time, and your feelings that the body work is unnecessary.
I hadn't made up the analogy when we spoke, but I did tell him the body parts wasn't that helpful to me. I did try gamely to name 7 parts during the protocol, so I wasn't resisting that. I tried really hard to do all parts of the protocol as he guided me through them. I am not reluctant to think of bodies or squeamish about them, so that's not it. For whatever reason, I ususally experience things in a more holistic way rather than isolating stuff to one body part. I try never to say "I don't know" to my T, but next time I might be more honest and tell him during the protocol that I don't know what body part is particularly safe. Maybe I can just say "everywhere" and that would be good enough.

My T did seem pleased that the color associated with the positive resource state worked so easily for me. He said different things work for different people. I am a really visual person, so that must be why the color works. A different trauma method T told me about once involves visualizing a place from one's past that one feels safe, like the grassy street corner from one's childhood home, the warm and comfy attic, a clearing in a forest grove, or wherever. I am also able to do this easily. T said the important thing for the protocol we did was that I could readily access the positive resource state, which I could. So I guess the body thing isn't critical. Since he was there, T experienced himself how much the technique helped me; that success encourages me that I shouldn't stress too much because I can't do the body part thing well.
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