I'm about the same as you TG. I'm sorry you don't get to tell your t things you think would help you both .

That's partly what I was bi*chy w t about-- I think he dominates the conversation too much-- mainly 'cuz he scares me and I don't say anything and he keeps blathering away without noticing. It felt good to tell him I wish he'd talk less even though I had to be bi*chy to get his attention and he didn't act like he understood.