i'm curious as to what you view as "aggresive" behaviour from your wife.

now i'm going to say stuff you don't like and i think you'll probably ignore.

i don't think the therapist did anything wrong. the fact that you think your wife being unable to think of a single flaw of yours is the same as "high regard" makes me think you're a bit narcissistic. i mean that your wife can't think of a single flaw of yours is a sign she has some kind of issue or block. it's not really about you.

i also sense some derision for your wife's therapist being about the empowerment of women. and to be honest i strongly suspect that what you call aggressive behaviour is actually just your wife becoming less of a doormat.

you say you split up with your wife but you don't actually say what prompted you to do so? or is it simply that she became "aggressive" as you see it.

also no, i don't find the comment inappropriate but i'm sure you guessed that.