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Originally Posted by hankster
So are you now trying to say that the therapist effectively interfered in your marriage? As in malpractice; thereby relieving you of any responsibility for the breakdown of your marriage? As you say, your wife was already troubled. Unfortunately, I have a more American understanding of marriage; are there also cultural issues in play here?
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Hankster, what is a more American understanding of marriage?
Ambient I think, that if there's a large age gap (and you being able to be her father is a really large age gap for me) in most cases there are SOME daddy's issues in the relationship involved. It doesn't have to be a bad thing though. I don't like how you're putting all the blame on your wife/her T. It's common and it could even be true but I just don't like it. Trying to be honest here not judgemental, just saying that my opinion could be influenced by this.
That being said, I don't think the part where your wife acted quite nasty towards you in order to monitor your behaviour is not OK and I don't think a good T should advice his client to behave like that.