Of course you're not to blame for HIS behavior! Ya know, I have made a few posts about "looters" but you're new so let me tell ya what I think: he's a looter. Looters do NOT return value for value. They take and take and then make YOU feel guilty for not giving more.

Get rid of him. You can NOT change him, and he obviously doesn't think he's the problem. There really are nice guys out there who can listen, and converse and act like adults. I hope you find one of THEM instead of this losing looter.

Make good decision to take care of yourself and I'll bet a lot of your anxiety will melt away. : )

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