this describes it perfectly. Its like when T said "not to get us off track, but...." It was like he told me an emotionally impacting thing and then said but we can't get off track so we can't discuss it". One part of me realizes that something emotionally upsetting as having your house broken into would be foremost in my T's mind and so using it as an example is understandable... but another part of me thinks that if he had the forethought to preface what he said with "not to get us off track but..." then he knew it would upset me at worst or I would feel the need to talk about at best.. that he had the presence of mind to have chosen not to talk about it.

Ughh... I think I was annoyed because I thought he should have acknowledged that it was not an appropriate example to use ...