The situation sounds very complicated. I'm sorry for your pain. Divorces suck. It seems unlikely for a therapist to have enough
power to cause a divorce. In my personal experience, therapists help me follow my own heart. My former husband wanted to blame me leaving him on my pastor and therapist and prozac. The reality was he was abusive. Still anything is ptossible. If the therapist did
something unethical by pushing her own agenda on your wife, that is like brainwashing and she should lose her license.