(((Rose))),
Just so you know, I have been battling similar things myself. There is no such thing as a perfect person/man.
I get tired out with my H as well Rose, but I am not perfect either.
I used to do what Perna is suggesting, it requires maintenance and since I had all the loss etc, and PTSD I have not been able to do that.
So, ok, yes it is late for errands, but just go do whatever you can anyway, make up your mind that its ok if you didn't do them when you thought, after all, no one is watching except you. Try to practice coloring outside the lines and be ok with it.
(((Hugs)))
Open Eyes