Well, I gave it 1.5 hours, then I had to check my email. T did respond (after her work day ended), about the iPad, not the question about boundaries. So now I know that it is just about the iPad. That actually makes me feel a lot better. I can talk about not dealing with personal stuff via email next session.
Then again, I might not be able to help her, because this is her reply to my email:
Strangely enough when I go to general there is nothing that says software update.???? I've gone through all the "labels" no software update. This is weird.
I'm telling you, she is a disaster with tech.