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Old Jul 26, 2012, 05:21 PM
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Originally Posted by WikidPissah View Post
ouch. that was so unfair.

I value his opinions, perspective, expertise, ideas, and personality. But I decided back in April that I wasn't going to take meds, yet he continues to bring it up. If it's a deal breaker for him then he needs to say that, he hasn't. He agrees with my decision one week, and then the next week brings up meds again.

Also..."making me talk" I know he can't make me do anything. I appreciate the fact that he doesn't push too hard in that direction. I also wonder if he should push a little more. It's a pro and a con.

On the pros vs the cons the cons would outweigh the pros if it were me. But that's me not you.

Why specifically does he bring up the meds for anxiety? Is your anxiety getting in the way of something for you? If so can T give you some tools for coping with anxiety? Have you considered going on meds for anxiety just to try it out? If you don't like the meds you can always go off of them. My husband went on and off of meds for anxiety 3x before deciding he needed them to function. And he wont go to therapy to learn ways to cope :-(

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Thanks for this!
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