Totally scary being the sole focus after flying under the radar and not making waves for so long, your whole life, really. I was the same way, and I used to take a good 10-15 minutes making small talk and chit chat with T before I could dive in. It's taken a lot of time to get used to this odd therapeutic relationship, but it is worth the time, cause if you let T, they can really help! (and now I can jump right into the important stuff as soon as T sits down!)