Yes, I am an expert on myself. I'm self-aware; I understand my feelings, my reactions, my desires, my fears. I know what makes me tick and I'm comfortable in my own skin. Now, if only I could understand my partner, my family, and my friends that well!
And if only my T could understand me that well! She does a good job-- better than most of the people in my life-- but she's no "me." I try to give her the "scorpiosis" handbook, but no one ever gets it as well as the person who wrote the manual