(((Rose))))

You have had some very interesting interactions with your bf. It sounds as though your technique of stopping the car and not giving into your bf's increasing outrage and anxiety helps a lot! Kudos to you!!

It does sound as though you really care about your bf. That you want to help him. You do have physical and emotional limitations of your own that shouldn't be disregarded though. Try to keep that fact in mind. Maybe keeping your time spent together a bit more structured and scheduled would help you get the time that you need to relax & take care of yourself.

In your time alone, maybe those are the times that you want to try pushing yourself to accept imperfection and ease up on the stress you put upon yourself.

(((hugs)))