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Jul 27, 2012, 12:43 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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You CAN stop the process, my dear. Just call the court and tell the to halt the divorce. You will lose the money you've already paid. But if in the future, you want to continue with the divorce, they will have the papers there. So if you want more time to think, just call them & stop it.
But remember -- HE CHEATS. Do you think he will quit cheating? Heck no. He's done it more than once, right? He'll probably keep doing it, because YOU keep forgiving him.  Since he keeps getting away with it, why should he quit? He can have his cake & eat it too -- an OLD cliche' but a good one. 
Don't you think you deserve better than this? What makes you think you can't find a man who WON'T DO THIS TO YOU? You deserve a man who will love ONLY YOU and not some bimbo online or down the street. You deserve a man who is devoted ONLY to you! There ARE men like that and you can find one!!! You don't deserve to be cheated on like this.
But it's your decision. If you love him, then don't divorce him, but be PREPARED to live like you've been living -- he's gonna keep cheating more than likely because he gets away with it. If I were you, I'd throw the bum out. I could forgive once, but TWICE??? HECK NO!!!!  God bless. Hugs, Lee
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