My mother still introduces me with "and this is ***, she certainly was a challenge." Yep, like with youall, it was all my fault, and even the years of bullying never happened according to her. I did it all for attention. funny, she never metions what a challenge it was having her constant nit picking, catastrophizing and dissatifaction with my school performance was for me, or what a challence growing up with and alchoholic father was, or losing my positive male role figure was at the age of eight. I'd call it even, really.