Hey IowaFarmGal! I absolutely love your statement!! I had an "Ah-ha" moment about 2 months ago with my relationship with my parents (who are divorced), my daughter, and my husband...I felt/feel like I am crazy and it is NOT ME...it is them reflecting their issues on me~ what I am guilty of is believing that some how it is me...and trying to "fix" myself...I feel like I am really on to something and what they saw as a weakness in my personality and character I let them manipulate and convince me of something that was not true!! I am really excited!!