Hi, Jess, and welcome to the forums.

I've read through enough of your posts to see that you don't really want to give up on this relationship. There's a lot of "yeah, but..." going on. I'd suggest you listen to Sky and do as she says if you know what's good for you. This young girl has some pretty serious problems that ARE NOT your responsibility. When you are old enough and wise enough to start thinking of settling down, you need to find someone that is much more your equal than this girl. By "equal" I mean, education wise, work wise and most importantly mentally and emotionally as mature as you. She has to ALREADY be what you want in "el amor de tu vida." You can't change anyone to be what you want them to be or they need to be. This girl needs serious help and let me tell you, you're not the one to give it to her. She needs her parent's support and a professional to talk to!

Like Sky said, get some maturity under your belt, take care of yourself first, and then think about rescuing others. You've got way too much life to live yet, before you go tying yourself down to a mess like that, friend or otherwise.





<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>