Sounds like that thing your husband said kinda triggered you. idk, if the shoe were on the other foot, wouldn't we be supporting your right to say whatever you think is relevant in MT? So - instead of giving in to the urge to run to (and call) your "perfect" H Jon Stewart, why don't you bite the bullet and thank your imperfect real H for bringing up a subject he may have been afraid to talk to you about alone - that's why he brought it up in MT? and actually try to reinvent that r/s? Of course I am going on very limited info here, but it could make a nice short story, no?