I am not trying to talk down to you, hankster. You often say things in your responses to me that are not accurate to my situation, so I do tend to disregard those statements somewhat. Like analyzing my husband. I do not think that suggesting to him that certain things from his past are affecting, and asking him if he wants to discuss him with his T or ours is analyzing him.

I did read all of what you wrote. I think where we got off track is that I was not asking anyone to condemn my husband for bringing up this issue, although I resent the way in which he did, and the reason he gave for it. What I brought up was whether I was going to make my T sick of me if I turn to him for support in how EXPOSED I feel, and for something of a reality check that my husband may have been trying to help our marriage and not just gratuitously exposing something intensely private for me. Given that my husband has SAID that he doesn't actually think it was all that relevant, I'm trying to wrap my head around the why's of him telling something I never tell, and trying to get a grip on my emotions. Something I think my T could assist with.

I was just asking about how often I should calling him and whether I should think about changing one of the therapy dates. Why are you so ultra support of certain other folks on here, but almost always have something critical to say to me? Some way of dogging on me about my relationship with my husband or my therapist? Seriously, did I do or say something horrible to you that I just don't remember? You can PM me about it if I did, or post about it on here if you feel the need to just get it out publicly.