Maybe you two just need to better understand each other as MALE & FEMALE..... gain knowledge into the needs you personally have as who you are as a man and a woman.
I love these two books and do think they will get the ball a rolling.... they will open your eyes and soften your hearts to the irritations that once made your relationship troublesome with the WHY's to his (and your) doings - - from each others side of the fence.
LINK:
http://4-womenonly.com/index.aspx
LINK:
http://formenonlybook.com/index.aspx
BOOKS (as a set):
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/159...lance&n=283155
LoVe,
Rhapsody -
P.S.
There is EXCEPTIONS to every RULE.... so use the book as you would any manual - as a reference, then talk it out with your spouse / significant other.
BTW - - - I got both books and I totally agree with the one on women and my husband and two sons love the book for women to read and learn about their man.