((((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS )))))))
We women are emotional creatures and everything effects everything else in our lives and in our need / desire for SEX.... hang in there and do not be so hard on your self, for you are going through many changes right now and being sexual just isn't high on your list.
Maybe try to cuddle with the one you love and just feel the safety in the touch of each others flesh, side by side. I love to have my husband close to me, rather we are being sexual or not.
LoVe,
Rhapsody -