"I think that you and your wife have a much different dynamic than my husband and I do."
On no! She's not my coach (I don't have one)....I wish she would be, but she definitely comes across as condescending, like she's talking to a child when she "reminds me" of things.
That was sort of my point,...if I had an ideal coach, it would be her, but only because she is around me enough to be effective. But an effective coach has to be upbeat and encouraging, not reprimanding, so she doesn't function welll in that regard.
I'm left on my own...along with meds...to fend for myself.
I try every single day to remember to put things away, keep appointments, clean up messes, etc., but find it a huge struggle unless I take meds.
It'd be nice to a have a coach.....