Thank you for your help...I don't mind him talking about the cutting it's just when we are in the middle of a conversation and he tells me he will be right back because he has to go and cut to take the pain away...that is very hard for me. I want to take the pain away for him so badly... He told me he started to cut only a year ago so I am hoping that it hasn't been that long that maybe I can help him to stop that part at least.
Again, thank you