To all the couples out there: Do you have any idea how much your single friends are suffering? Do you ever bother to call them like you used to? Remember how close friends you used to be and how much they helped you when you were in need?
Yes, I am single. I am always single. But being single is not what bothers me. What really surprises me is the disappearing act from my friends as soon as they couple up with someone. I was also once with some guy, but still, I gave the same attention and the same love to my friends as I've always had. Nothing changed with me. So why can't other people do the same for me?
I hate couples. Couples don't invite you anymore to anything (although you try to adjust yourself to their new interest such as the new grass mower or the baby crib, etc). You don't fit with them anymore and you are now considered as a threat to their "stable" life. Couples feel sorry for you for "sleeping in a cold bed at night" or for not experiencing motherhood. On one hand they always remind you of the clock ticking but on the other they never try to introduce you to their single guy friend that they know.....cause they just love watching you suffer in your single life....it makes them feel better in their "till death do us part" choice that they made. Couples suck!
If you are coupled-up and you have single friends, go to the damn phone now and call them! Ask them how they are doing and don't start talking about the baby again!
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