I didn't have a go at you, but think it's interesting you ask that because I wonder what you were doing in your post? You weren't having a go?

I have to ask - do you have any idea what racism is, and the effect it can have? Really, genuinely? I'm so upset by you using that in such a flippant way, just to get attention. There are people who are raped because of it. Suggesting that you're a victim of it because you're upset about not getting replies to your posts is, quite honestly, incredibly disrespectful to people who really are targets.

Couldn't you just have been straightforward and said, I'm upset that I've posted and there are no responses?

Couldn't the people who replied to you have said, you don't need to ask spurious questions about the site being racist in order to say you're upset?

If anyone thinks I'm taking this too seriously, I'd ask whether you think racism is serious? Should people make throwaway comments about rape, mental illness or whatever it is that brings you to this site?

I'm sure there are some great people on this forum, but I just don't want to be here anymore. I was also looking for support, but I wasn't asking whether the other members were against me in order to get that. This whole thing is so unhealthy and toxic, I want to get away from it.

But you have lots of replies now, so presumably you're happy?