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drunksunflower said:Their relationship was completely consenting.

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I'm really not sure if a 14 year-old can give consent when we're talking about someone so much older. Regardless of how mature she was for her age, there's a huge difference in experience there.

Anyway, I agree that it's a shame that they don't differentiate the offenses more on these sites, but that would require providing more detail than most offenders would really want out there, don't you think? In the end, I do think the benefits outweigh the drawbacks. It's true that not everyone on those lists is a predator, but there are plenty of predators on there. If one moves in next door, I want to know about it.

I don't have any desire to screw up anybody's life, but the life that I'm most concerned about getting screwed up is my kid's.