I'm sure your a great mother. Remember...she is NOT the mother. Don't you think sometimes these grandmothers try to upstage us bc of how they screwed up with us? They want a redo!

My mother has alzheimers now and doesn't do any of that anymore to me bc of where she is with her illness. But the constant critizism and belittleing and trying to be in charge of my son was horrible. Can you try to not be around her as much to help you?