Trying to put myself in DIL's shoes...
I would probably not entertain a discussion about repairing things until I have heard you admit that you were wrong about some things. I don't actually know what you were wrong ABOUT, but maybe that is something you can reflect on.
Another thing - I don't think she is jealous of you. She already has what she wants. Perhaps vice-versa is true, since SHE has what YOU want. But, since she knows how you feel about her, she understandably is going to do whatever she can to keep her family together since you have made it quite clear that you wanted her out of he picture. ANYONE would feel the way she does in her situation. This is where you admitting that you were wrong about some stuff (the specifics are up to you) would go a very long way. She's not going to let you near them until she gets some assurance that you're not going to try to break them up at the first opportunity you get.
Do you know what I mean?
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