It's definitely worth it... although I don't honestly believe that she wants to mend the relationship... not the way she asked the question, anyway. We BOTH need to stop assuming things about the other.

Besides, I know how she fights/argues. She sandbags; throws all kinds of things from out of the past and won't deal with one thing at a time. Even John brought that up to her.

I don't know... I think talking to John might bring better results... maybe. I think I need to wait for a while, though, and let things cool down on both sides. No doubt Jerry is bad mouthing me to them something terrible right now! He has in the past. No reason to think he's not doing it now.

Maybe this thing with them should just sit for awhile until I get myself situated and get my own bearings. I don't need or want to bring that into it, nothing, none of the problems I'm having with no transportation or no phone. If it comes up, and no doubt the subject of Jerry will, I want to be able to say that I'm doing fine. John has always taken Jerry's side in things.

See? I knew these two things were tied together!! LOL

Anyway... I need to process these changes first, anyway, to be comfortable doing things that I've never done before. Right? You know... it's not kissing butt, it's putting my best foot forward?? LOL