Its a pleasure! And I would love to be your family

why don't you break it to them in stages? Have talks surrounding the topic, get a feel for where they're at, and if they go off on a bipolars are werewolves trip, ask 'so you think I'm a werewolf?'... Lol, you know what I mean (I hope) and be firm about the zero tolerance for pity. Pity is so useless anyway, serves no purpose