you and your wife can attend nar-anon or al-anon meetings. there are many people in those groups suffering as you and don't know what to do. you will find support there as well as ways to deal with your daughter using drugs. both are free to attend. check out meetings in your area. http://www.al-anon.org/meetings/meeting.html
http://www.nar-anon.org/Nar-Anon/Meetings.html
hope this helps.
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