Thanks guys. I have thought about it more today and I think I would like to go to the wake only to support the family and show them I care. But I really, really don't want to see him in the casket. He's my age, and the first one I will have been to....and I know that will be hard. I know I should go. Sometimes you have to do things you don't want to do. I'm sure I will be glad I went, but again, I don't think I will be "okay" with seeing him. Hard not to at a wake, right?